Proverbs 17:3


Probers for Living

Series: Digging Deeper into Proverbs


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Better is a dry morsel with quiet
than a house full of feasting with strife.
2 A servant who deals wisely will rule over a son who acts shamefully
and will share the inheritance as one of the brothers.
3 The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold,
and the Lord tests hearts.
4 An evildoer listens to wicked lips,
and a liar gives ear to a mischievous tongue.
5 Whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker;
he who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished.
6 Grandchildren are the crown of the aged,
and the glory of children is their fathers.
7 Fine speech is not becoming to a fool;
still less is false speech to a prince.
8 A bribe is like a magic stone in the eyes of the one who gives it;
wherever he turns he prospers.
9 Whoever covers an offense seeks love,
but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.
10 A rebuke goes deeper into a man of understanding
than a hundred blows into a fool.
11 An evil man seeks only rebellion,
and a cruel messenger will be sent against him.
12 Let a man meet a she- bear robbed of her cubs
rather than a fool in his folly.
13 If anyone returns evil for good,
evil will not depart from his house.
14 The beginning of strife is like letting out water,
so quit before the quarrel breaks out.
15 He who justifies the wicked and he who condemns the righteous
are both alike an abomination to the Lord.
16 Why should a fool have money in his hand to buy wisdom
when he has no sense?
17 A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for adversity.
18 One who lacks sense gives a pledge
and puts up security in the presence of his neighbor.
19 Whoever loves transgression loves strife;
he who makes his door high seeks destruction.
20 A man of crooked heart does not discover good,
and one with a dishonest tongue falls into calamity.
21 He who sires a fool gets himself sorrow,
and the father of a fool has no joy.
22 A joyful heart is good medicine,
but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
23 The wicked accepts a bribe in secret
to pervert the ways of justice.
24 The discerning sets his face toward wisdom,
but the eyes of a fool are on the ends of the earth.
25 A foolish son is a grief to his father
and bitterness to her who bore him.
26 To impose a fine on a righteous man is not good,
nor to strike the noble for their uprightness.
27 Whoever restrains his words has knowledge,
and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding.
28 Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise;
when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.


Solomon: When God Refines


Proverbs 17:3 The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold, and the Lord tests hearts.

It is in the heat, only in the furnace, that our hearts will reveal the dross still in them. It is only under extreme pressure that some impurities will at last show themselves and rise to the surface that they may be removed. We do not enjoy the fire. No one does. It isn’t pleasant. But it is so wonderfully useful. The truth is we would rather remain un-assaulted by the trials. But then our sins remain hidden, and still dangerous to our own souls as well as to others.
But here is a time to remember what is really going on. For we can vainly imagine that the soul-work of sanctification that the Spirit is about in us is something which is done in an instant, and that without discomfort. How many times have we prayed with our Beloved Paul for God to just take some thorn in the flesh away? I have. But that is the exception, not the rule – even as it was for Paul too. It is in vain that we seek some single experience to jolt us into a higher stage of spiritual growth. We want someone to utter a single powerful prayer and lay the battle against the flesh to rest. A seminar, a book, a sermon, an experience of some sort to short circuit the process and bring about the maturity in Christ we long for. But that is not His way.
Over and over the Divine Refiner returns to His laborious work in us. Heating and reheating, stirring and filtering and searching out those hidden impurities that seem to defy detection one day, only to finally appear the next. All at once, whole chunks of putrid debris float to the surface to be skimmed off by His loving hand – searching always to make us into the finest vessels imaginable.
Creation was child’s play in contrast to the work of re-creation. Nothing in the material universe as created resisted the will of the Maker the way sin in us seeks to wrest control out of His hands at every turn. But He is not about a mere work of fashioning lifeless clay. He is about His crowning achievement. He is undoing infinite damage caused by the Fall and then bringing about new vessels even greater and higher than in our first estate. It is nothing short of the same power exercised to first speak light out of darkness, and then to raise Jesus Himself from the dead. No wonder it seems gargantuan in scope, and requires a breaking up of the deeps. But the promise is worth it.
I am reminded of those insightful words some attribute to J. Oswald Sanders and others say remains anonymous – but speak the truth of these spiritual matters well:

When God wants to drill a man,
And thrill a man,
And skill a man
When God wants to mold a man
To play the noblest part;

When He yearns with all His heart
To create so great and bold a man
That all the world shall be amazed,
Watch His methods, watch His ways!

How He ruthlessly perfects
Whom He royally elects!
How He hammers him and hurts him,
And with mighty blows converts him

Into trial shapes of clay which
Only God understands;
While his tortured heart is crying
And he lifts beseeching hands!

How He bends but never breaks
When his good He undertakes;
How He uses whom He chooses,
And which every purpose fuses him;

By every act induces him
To try His splendor out-
God knows what He’s about.

~ Reid

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Reid Ferguson
Reid serves as the pastor for preaching and vision at Evangelical Church of Fairport in Fairport New York. A native of Rochester, N.Y., he has served in various ministry areas during his life, including: a founding member of the former Mark IV Quartet, Youth Pastor at ECF, former board member of the Fellowship of Independent Reformed Evangelicals (F.I.R.E.), and author of The Little Book of Things You Should Know About Ministry (Christian Focus Publications, 2002). Pastor Reid blogs regularly at Responsive Reiding.